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    • Ol’ Gus

      Posted at 10:13 pm by Lauren Tepaske, on February 27, 2020

      I’m frequently inspired to write about the galoots in my life.  While Marcus tends to be my muse most of the time, occasionally I find inspiration elsewhere.  Today, that inspiration is drawn from ol’ Gus the dog.

      Gus is the peeping hound dog that lives at the Cottage with his people:  My brother-in-law and his wife and son.  Gus is a fan of sun bathing, barking at seemingly nothing, sniffing the entire acre and a half, and peeping through our kitchen windows at dinner time (I think he likes to pretend he’s living his old, orphan life to remind himself how good he has it now).  He also will romp for about 10 seconds with Axel and then he’s good for the rest of the day.

      Another favorite past time ol’ Gus has is escaping through the front gate every chance he gets.  He has an uncanny ability to be across the yard and know that the gate has been opened.  While our ultimate goal is for the gate to be mechanized it isn’t as of yet and that has proven to be a challenge for keeping Gus contained.  Frequently what happens is, a person unfamiliar with Gus will drive through the gate and fail to close it behind them.  Also, because we like to channel the Clampetts, the gate has to be bungeed closed so that the wind does not blow it open and this is often forgotten which results in an escape.

      If you are not familiar with our area we live off of a fairly busy, four lane road.  We chose to fence-in the entire acre and half in order to be able to enjoy it completely and feel that our children and animals are protected.  It turns out, though, that it isn’t our own children or animal that needs protecting because they are trained to stay within their boundaries.  Gus, on the other hand, is just an old boy who was rescued not even knowing how to eat out of a bowl let alone know what a boundary is.

      Somehow, he has managed to walk out of the gate and make it across all four lanes of traffic; he’s walked about a mile away to the Bowman Center; I found him one time leading the way for a gentleman through the neighborhood across the street; he’s been found hanging out at Dixon Park; plus, he’s received at least one or two rides home with kind strangers.  It helps that he is a slow mover so I suppose the few times he has crossed in front of traffic it’s like having to stop for a family of geese crossing which gives motorists time to react.

      This is all to say that we are working on a solution for containing Gus.  Until then, keep an eye out for a old, plodding hound dog on Dixon.

      Gus

      Gus, the escape artist

      Posted in Animals, Grounds, Life | 0 Comments
    • Silver Linings

      Posted at 9:53 am by Lauren Tepaske, on February 23, 2020

      The other night I had a dream that left was right and right was left.  The next day I got in the car and turned on Waze and as Cookie Monster told me to “turn left” I, for a split second, wasn’t sure which direction that was.  I think my sister-in-law was correct when she surmised that it was a metaphor for my life right now.  I am feeling very frazzled and very much not myself but it will fade; it isn’t an altogether alien feeling as it happens every time we move.

      The house is slowly coming together but it’s taking time to get through 12 crates worth of household goods.  How is it possible that a family of four accumulated so much crap that it took 12 crates to store it all?  I’ve been going room by room and donating, consigning, recycling, throwing away, or putting aside for a future yard sale.  All of this has to be done while the girls are in school because A. They would want to reclaim the things I’m trying to get rid of and B. They would stress me out with their mere presence and having to parent.

      As I go through our boxes I realize the biggest hoarder is Marcus which is funny because he’s always giving me flack for buying “stuff.”  The difference is, I consign or donate the things I no longer want whereas he keeps EV-ERY-THING and just stashes it.  I’m talking things from high school and college.  I asked him to go through his stuff and set aside whatever he might not want anymore and he gave me three items.  So, he has two giant boxes of clothes and another, slim box stashed under the bed to my one box of clothes in need of a dresser.  This doesn’t even touch on the random cords, CDs, and documents that accounted for the last few boxes I opened.

      With all that said, there have been a few silver linings within the last few weeks, my favorite being Mr. White (hi, Mr. White!).  Mr. White is the grandson of Tonstal and Annie Scott who worked for the Shannon family at Sligo.  He was the first person who contacted me when I asked the Shannon Airport to please pass on my information and who gave me Mrs. Scott-Johnson’s (his cousin) information.  Anyway, long story short, Mr. White contacted me about a week after we moved in because he had read my previous blog lamenting our lack of mirrors.  He had two, door length mirrors in his basement that were never used and he wanted to give them to us because “A woman needs a mirror!”  Mr. White, I hope you’re reading this because your kindness filled my heart with such joy and I’m once again astounded at how this crazy thing called the Internet has put me in touch with some of the nicest, most genuine people.  Along with the mirrors, Mr. White also gave me a picture of his grandfather that I plan to frame and put in a bookcase along with my other Sligo memorabilia.

      Tonstal Scott - 1950s

      Mr. Tonstal Scott, circa 1950s.

       

       

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    • The Big Move

      Posted at 9:39 pm by Lauren Tepaske, on February 13, 2020

      We are finally living at Sligo.  It’s hard to believe that approximately 18 months ago we walked through a house that was absolutely unlivable.  I, and my girls, had a hard time seeing what Marcus saw in the house.  All we could see were the vines growing through the broken windows, the graffiti, and the piles of things left behind.  But, it turns out, after 18 months of not having a home of our own the change was easier than we expected.

      Both of the girls have been enjoying having their own room.  I already knew this about the two of them but, it turns out the oldest is a bit of a slob and the youngest is neat and particular about her things.  It’s almost as if they’re miniature versions of Marcus and me.  Almost.

      Axel is feeling a bit neglected because I have been so focused on unpacking the house that we haven’t been for a run together.  With that said, he has one and a half acres to romp on and an old hound dog buddy to keep him company so he isn’t too bad off.  Lasagna the kitty seems to be doing well and I’m secretly hoping that she may lose a little weight going up and down the stairs.  You can frequently find her sitting next to the girls at the kitchen table, sleeping in random comfy spots around the house, or bird watching.  She even seems to have accepted Axel as her frenemy and while she still lets him know who’s boss she doesn’t run away as frequently.

      Marcus is stressed only because I have a “Honey-do” list and he’s set to go on travel for two weeks soon.  I don’t think it’s asking too much that he hang curtains before he leaves so that we have a little more privacy.  With that said, I’m trying to really prepare him for the cost of curtains for roughly 9 foot high windows.  That will probably be what causes him to really regret this whole adventure; the cost of curtains.

      My stress levels are slowly dwindling as the house becomes unpacked.  This hasn’t been without it’s share of mishaps such as leaving my purse and purchases at random places and doing laundry with fabric softener (which I thought was detergent) for the past two weeks.  Today, I had some errands to run and decided to pretend like I cared about my appearance and did my makeup using a little handheld mirror (because we don’t have mirrors yet and I think we’ll definitely have curtains before we have mirrors).  After speaking with our general contractor I got in the car and took a look in the rear view mirror.  Much to my dismay I realized I had applied my lipstick like a five-year old and looked an absolute fright.  So, lessons learned here are check for my belongings before leaving, check the labels on laundry detergent, and care less about what I look like when I run errands because at this moment there’s either just rolled out of bed chic or crazy spinster/cat lady chic and there doesn’t seem to be anywhere in between.

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    • Recent Posts

      • Preoccupied December 20, 2021
      • The “Haunting” of Sligo August 4, 2021
      • Rehabilitation Tax Credits April 27, 2021
      • Put Me in Blogger Jail April 6, 2021
      • Virginia Historic Registry and the National Landmark Registry August 6, 2020
      • My Good Boy, Axel July 14, 2020
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