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    • Excitement

      Posted at 10:11 pm by Lauren Tepaske, on August 26, 2018

      We had a little excitement over the weekend when ADT called to inform us of a potential break-in at Sligo.  As luck would have it, we were close and able to meet the police at the property.  Also as luck would have it, I was about three beers and two glasses of wine into the afternoon (before you judge, it was my girlfriend’s birthday and I don’t drink like that all of the time…I mean, I might do that every other day, but definitely not every day) and was looking especially cute.  I only mention that last part about looking cute because, as it turns out, the responding officers were extremely good looking and it was just really a nice chance to meet the friendly neighborhood enforcers of the law, possibly exchange numbers, find out if they’re single, and overall get a really nice sense of community.  I should mention that I did not drive myself, Marcus was with me and he was sober and even he admitted the police were attractive because he’s that confident in his masculinity and our relationship.  Also, my going on and on about exactly just how cute these police officers were had nothing to do with my alcohol consumption.

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      I’m not saying the officers looked like Channing Tatum but they looked like Channing Tatum (at least in my drunken mind).

      To get to the real meat of the story (see what I did there?), it turns out it was a false alarm or, if someone had been trying to get in, they were gone by the time we got there.  Unfortunately, someone shattered a storm door on the Cottage House, I’m guessing in an attempt to get in.  The best part about that is one entire side of the Cottage House is covered with a tarp and the perpetrator(s) could just as easily have lifted the tarp and entered that way but, I suppose criminals aren’t always known for their common sense.

      It isn’t surprising that people are still coming onto the property.  It has been vacant for so long and the Cottage House was clearly a place that squatters would frequent.  From day one I have been concerned that as work starts, people will come along and trash what we have done.  At the moment, one or two more broken window panes won’t hurt but once the real work starts and they start messing with my home, well, then I may have to send a petrified British soldier after their asses.

       

       

      Posted in Cottage, Grounds, Life, Main House | 6 Comments
    • Our Girls

      Posted at 10:59 pm by Lauren Tepaske, on August 15, 2018

      I think in an effort to keep you all entertained I’ll continue writing about things other than the house.  For one, there’s nothing to write about and two, write what you know, they say.

      We are in major limbo right now hence the lack of any new and exciting information.  Marcus and I have been slowly getting our current house pulled together so we can put it on the market while at the same time we are getting the girls ready for moving and starting at a new school in just a few short weeks.  The “new” house has not started any renovations because we are waiting to hear back from the Virginia Landmark Registry and we are waiting for quotes from the contractor.

      While the house is under renovation we will be staying with my mom, God bless her.  We lived with her in between houses once before but it was for about two months.  Who knows how long we’ll be here this time because we don’t know how long the renovation is going to take.  Plus, the last time we stayed with my mom we were less one puppy who is ADHD in dog form and the girls were much smaller and more easily contained.

      As I mentioned in a previous post we have two little girls:  A is 7 years old and J is 5 years old.  Both of them were born in Fredericksburg but neither of them remember living there.  We have made frequent trips back since leaving in 2013 so the girls are aware of the more important things that Fredericksburg has to offer:  Carl’s Ice Cream, Paul’s Bakery, and KD’z Kidz World.  I too am familiar with all three though I could do without that last one (it’s a bounce house for those who don’t know and my own personal hell).

      Speaking of the girls,  they are currently outside screaming at each other because one of them licked the other and the other kicked the other and the other hit the other and I truly believe the whole neighborhood will feel lighter when we leave.  I can just hear the collective sigh of relief as the noise level drops and peace and quiet returns once more.  Though, if the neighbors are anything like me then they’ve learned to tune out the chaos.  It’s a good thing this new property will have all of that land so the girls can scream their heads off and I can continue to ignore them.

      Both of the girls are sad to be moving and leaving their friends.  I’ve tried to impress upon them how much easier it is to make new friends as kids.  They then asked if it’s easy to make friends as grown-ups which I thought was a very clever question.  I explained that sometimes it’s a little harder to make friends as adults.  Unfortunately, adults can’t just run up to another adult and ask if they want to play.  I mean…we could…but someone might call the police.  So, after explaining that I like to think I put their minds at ease.  Kind of like the time they asked me how babies are born and I told them they come out of the mommy’s vagina or are sometimes cut out of the mommy’s belly.  They definitely did not ruminate on that for a while because I definitely did not give them too much information for their age and I definitely did not just keep going on and on about the topic.

      Well, that certainly went off in a different direction.  Till next time, folks!

       

       

      Posted in Life | 1 Comment
    • Debbie Downer Post

      Posted at 4:37 pm by Lauren Tepaske, on August 12, 2018

      I can’t lie.  I’m feeling overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, and just generally farklemt.  There is so much that needs to be done in our current house before we can put it on the market, the number one project being the master bathroom renovation.  If anyone knows our track record for projects then it should come as no surprise that we’ve been working on this since February.  Also, it should come as no surprise to anyone that the “our” in that previous sentence means “Marcus.”

      There isn’t much I can do at this point with the bathroom.  I’m only mildly handy with a paint brush (at least that’s how I like to play it) and I know the difference between a Phillips and a slotted screwdriver although, full disclosure, I had to look up what the actual name is for a slotted screwdriver.  With that being said I definitely cannot install a toilet or hook-up the sinks.  I could maybe install a light.  Maybe.

      This is all to say that I have just completely lost my mojo.  Even the most basic of stay-at-home mom duties have fallen by the wayside.  The laundry is piled a mile high, the floors are disgusting (though the dog is very diligent in keeping them crumb free), the dishes regularly sit in the sink for a day or two before I even bother, beds are left in a state of being slept in…the list goes on.  The overwhelming stress of this current house and the move back to Fredericksburg has brought me to my knees and all I can do is sit on the couch and stare into space.  So, I’m sorry.  Posting and keeping everyone informed is definitely important to me…I just have to get through the next few weeks.

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      Posted in Life | 3 Comments
    • Sleeping

      Posted at 7:47 am by Lauren Tepaske, on August 9, 2018

      Marcus travels a lot.  It’s become only slightly easier to deal with as the years go by but, with that being said, every new house we move into brings with it a period of time in which I have to readjust.  Mostly the readjustment period is me dealing with irrational fears of being home alone with the kids and something scary happening like an intruder or a fire but it has definitely resulted in a few sleepless nights.

      I may or may not have mentioned the fact that I’m a worrier.  Someone needs to be in this family.  For example, I am the type of person that takes the tornado warnings seriously, gathering the children and pets and huddling in the bathroom.  Marcus is the type of person who sees the warning and rolls back over to sleep.  So, I don’t know if that’s a worrier problem or just a protective mother problem but either way I suppose it’s a problem when it affects my sleep (’cause Lord knows I love my sleep).

      So, now I find myself having sleepless nights worrying about how I’m going to fall asleep the first night that Marcus is gone and I find myself alone in the new house.  For one, the house has been vacant, and the whole area knows it, and I’m worried someone is going to try and get in.  Secondly, I’m worried that the house is so old the wiring will set it on fire.

      I’m also worried that the ghosts are going to get me or are going to mess with my girls Scratch that, I’m more worried about them messing with me…the girls can fend for themselves in this case.  If something sits on my bed in the middle of the night, I’m out (and there’s a very real chance of this happening because we have a cat and I’m more of a react now ask questions later type of person).  It’s every man for himself in the night if ghosts are involved.

      There you have it.  I can’t sleep for fear of not being able to sleep.  That could be the very definition of crazy.

      Posted in Haunted, Life, Main House | 3 Comments
    • Virginia Landmarks Register (Sort of)

      Posted at 10:18 pm by Lauren Tepaske, on August 8, 2018

      We have started the process for registering Sligo with the Virginia Landmarks Register (VLR).  Surprisingly, it does not appear that anyone before us has attempted to do the same.  I am fairly certain the house would not qualify for the National Historic Registry but it may qualify for the VLR.  This isn’t to say that our application will be approved; I don’t know what exactly they’re looking for and it’s doubtful that just the age of home will land it on the registry but it’s worth a try.  If we can get it on the registry then we may qualify for tax credits which will help immensely.

      It saddens me that the property was left to fall apart for so long but I also understand how a home this size and age can get away from a person.  For comparison’s sake, our current house is a mere 27 years old and it was in such a state of disrepair that it was foreclosed because the owner couldn’t keep-up with the repairs.  I think it goes without saying that it was Marcus who found both Sligo and our current home.  I also did a little house hunting and kept finding perfectly fine homes without holes in the ceiling or nests in closets or ancient animal carcasses in the basement but I guess because they didn’t have any of those issues they weren’t interesting enough for Marcus.

      Some of you may have looked-up the Zillow listing of Sligo and seen the interior pictures.  I had, too, before seeing it in person.  The pictures still didn’t prepare me for what the house looked like in person.  Some of you might have wondered what I thought when I saw Sligo for the first time, in person.  Take it away Tyra:

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      My literal reaction to walking into Sligo for the first time.

      I don’t mean to be dramatic but…maybe I was a little dramatic.  To be fair, this was the first thing I saw when I drove up the driveway:

      Dead tree

      The vulture tree.

      That boded well for the rest of the viewing.  The next thing I noticed was the smell.  It turns out the cottage had a fresh animal carcass just inside the door and the smell was permeating the perimeter of the property (alliteration!).  Sorry, I didn’t get a picture of that; I pretty much avoided that area like, well, like a dead animal was near by.

      Once inside the main house, the first room I entered was the kitchen which is located on the south of the house (and trust me I usually have no clue which way is north, south, east, or west but I’ve been looking at maps for the VLR application and feeling frisky).  Directly to the right of the entrance was a small room which was full of random stuff.

      Kitchen

      One corner of the kitchen, stacked with books.

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      A view of the rest of the kitchen area.

      Room off the kitchen

      The small room off the kitchen and also the scene of Marcus’s accident. (Picture pulled from the Zillow listing.)

      As I walked past the kitchen I entered a dark hallway and what used to be a bathroom.  Past that was a second small room and then the two main rooms of the first floor plus the foyer which is a room in itself.

      Downstairs bathroom

      The downstairs “bathroom.”  (Picture pulled from the Zillow listing.)

      Future office

      The second small room off the back of the house.  (Picture pulled from the Zillow listing.)

      Foyer

      The foyer. Pretty sure the graffiti on the wall, to the left, does not say “Good luck you.”  Also, the door that is closed in the background of the picture is the second room off the back of the house.  (Picture pulled from the Zillow listing.)

       

      As I continued walking through the house I came to the two main rooms of the house.  Both were left in a state of disrepair with quite a lot of old and broken furniture and just general stuff piled in corners.  However, the one thing I saw and grudgingly admitted was amazing, were the very large, double pocket doors that separated the two rooms.

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      The large pocket doors that separate two rooms on the first floor.

      From there, I gingerly picked my way over the broken glass and trash bags full of stuff and headed up the stairs.  The stairs are in amazing shape and are about four or five feet wide.  At first I thought maybe the stairs were so wide because of the style of dress in the 1890s but now I’m not so sure.  I was envisioning hoop skirts for that time period but after a quick Internet search I know that’s not correct.  Too bad because I was really hoping for a Scarlett O’Hara moment and maybe even a dramatic goodbye kiss with Marcus at the front door (not insinuating he’s going to leave me but we’re only just at the beginning of this renovation process and we still like each other).

      The stair banister is slightly worrisome for me (Hello, my name is Lauren and I’m a worrier) because it stands about four feet tall but Marcus pointed out it would be he or I that would be more likely to fall over since it hits at our hip or lower.  So, as long as the ghosts are friendly and aren’t the pushing kind I’ll be fine though I might avoid walking on that side of the stairs until the ghosts and I have established boundaries.

      The three rooms upstairs were all in relatively good shape with the exception of the broken windows and plants growing through them oh, and the nests.  Have I mentioned the nests?  The bathroom upstairs was in the worst shape of all the upstairs space though it would appear that some work was being done before the previous owners left.  After the second floor I went to the basement which I touched-on in a separate post but can’t stress enough just how dark and creepy it was.

      I suppose that’s it.  I just scrolled to the top and saw that I originally started to write this post about the application with the VLR so, my apologies, I know I went off on a tangent there.

       

      happy Tyra

      Thanks, Tyra.  You have such a way with emotions.

       

      Posted in History, Main House | 4 Comments
    • Fluff Post

      Posted at 8:53 am by Lauren Tepaske, on August 6, 2018

      I’m not going to lie, this past weekend has left me reeling.  My mom’s dog barreled out of our front door as we were pup-sitting and eluded capture for about 10 hours.  Since the plan is to move-in with her it was kind of important that we find him.  That was Saturday.  On Sunday, as we were getting ready to head to the beach, I realized my oldest had lice which I’m not too proud to admit (also, I had an epiphany when I realized where the term “nit picky” comes from).  Anyway, that led to a day-long scouring of the children and house and my brain doesn’t want to function this morning (plus “Orange is the New Black” has new episodes on Netflix…priorities).  So, my apologies, but today is going to be about what’s going on in our lives rather than about Sligo.

      Things are starting to get hectic around our current house.  The game plan is to pack the essentials and move-in with my mom while Sligo is being renovated.  We thought it would be best for the girls to start the school year at their new school rather than switching schools half-way through the year so we have a self-imposed move date of two weeks from now.  Plus, we are putting the current house on the market and hope to sell it quickly.  However, before we can sell the current house we have to get the master bathroom put back together so, the word “stress” is being thrown around a lot and alcohol is being consumed at an alarmingly fast rate.

      Along with the master bathroom and packing the essentials we need to purge of the items we don’t want, or need, to move with.  Naturally, I can attribute the unnecessary, larger items to the hoarder in disguise, Marcus.  Currently, there is a boat that has been parked on the side of the road for a few months that needs to go, and an ICEE Machine in the garage that has been sitting for a year, untouched with the exception of the times I’ve had to move it to get to something else.

      Here’s hoping the next few weeks go smoothly and I can come up with some more posts about Sligo to keep you all interested!

       

      Posted in Life | 1 Comment
    • The Windows

      Posted at 8:09 am by Lauren Tepaske, on August 4, 2018

      The windows are amazing.  In the front room of the first floor they are at least 8′ tall.  (It should be noted that the ceiling height is a whopping 12.’  I have no idea how to decorate for 12′ high ceilings.  I mean, I have a hard time hanging pictures at eye level…or just level, really, so this will be a personal challenge.)  I won’t even go into the question of decorating the windows and how I’ve sat and pondered over what kind of curtains and curtain rods or shades or blinds or posters or sheets or aluminum foil or whatever we’ll be able to afford when this is over and we’re house poor but we’ll still need to cover the windows.  *deep breath in, breathe out*

      About 50% of the windows have broken panes of glass and all of them are in varying states of deterioration.  Mother Nature has also done an impressive job of reclaiming her space and ivy is climbing through the glass that is broken.  Our oldest daughter was particularly thrilled by the ivy through the window and argued for it to remain.  She is quite the nature lover and we would do anything for her but this won’t be one of them.  She also wanted a life-size, mechanical dragon that can fly her around the world which we were, shockingly, unable to deliver so she’s used to overcoming her disappointment in our failure as parents.

      I believe we would like to save as many of the original windows as possible.  At the same time, I’m of the opinion that if some of the windows turn-out to be “new” then those should be replaced.  Really the only certainty is that the plants cannot stay.

      Master bedroom window

      Master bedroom window.  Photo credit, Johnna Hetrick.

      Posted in Main House | 3 Comments
    • The Basement

      Posted at 8:11 am by Lauren Tepaske, on August 3, 2018

      Of all the places in the house, the basement is by far the spookiest mostly due to the fact that there is an absolute lack of light.  There are windows but those are boarded up and, even if there were working lights, I have a fear of turning on a light and a spark flaring up and a line of fire trailing up a wall, burning down the house (seriously, watch The Money Pit if you haven’t already).

      On a recent trip to the house I was able to ascertain that there are not any human remains in the very large trunks that have been left behind so that was a relief (and if you think that thought didn’t really cross my mind you would be wrong).  The entire basement would be fantastic for a Halloween party or a seance or even a virgin sacrifice if that’s what you’re into.

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      Why?

      In the end what I really want from the basement is a full apartment that can be rented on Airbnb or a space for guests to stay in (I won’t charge family and friends the full Airbnb price but you’ll still need to bring your own linens).  Renovating the basement comes with it’s own set of challenges, a lack of light being only one of those.  From the outside entrance to the basement is an old coal pit and where the boiler is currently located.  Saving this would not only preserve the history of the house but also add a uniqueness to the space as the current plan for it is to be a kitchen.  From the old coal pit would be a bathroom, a living space, and a bedroom.  Both the living space and bedroom have exposed brick walls and beams and I wonder what their use was 100 years ago.  If anyone out there is an old home expert I would love your opinion!

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      The coal pit, where a future kitchen will be.

      1st room from the basement stairs.

      The future bedroom.

      2nd room from the basement stairs.

      The future living space.

      Posted in Haunted, Main House | 6 Comments
    • Happy Anniversary!

      Posted at 7:17 am by Lauren Tepaske, on August 1, 2018

      Today is Marcus’s and my 9th anniversary.  Despite the hard time I give him for some of the situations we find ourselves in (uninhabitable homes for one) we’re still just as happy as the day we were married.  Plus, it’s not one sided; Marcus gives me an equally hard time (for being perfectly awesome) it just isn’t as obvious because his social media presence is practically nonexistent.

      We were married at Blandfield Plantation because we fell in love with the house and the grounds, both of us appreciating the history of Virginia and the workmanship of homes that have stood for hundreds of years.  Maybe, then, it makes sense that we find ourselves in the beginning process of renovating our old home?  Is this what they mean by “coming full circle?”

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      August 1, 2009, Blandfield Plantation.

      Posted in Uncategorized | 5 Comments
    • The Contractors

      Posted at 8:58 am by Lauren Tepaske, on July 31, 2018

      Marcus and I recently re-watched the 1986 Tom Hank’s classic, The Money Pit for what I deemed to be “research purposes.”  Granted, I’m not divorced from a millionaire conductor and Marcus isn’t the lovable Tom Hanks (though sometimes he does find himself in unusual predicaments) but perhaps the trial and tribulations the movie characters face while renovating their home may mirror our own in the future.

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      Is this our future?  Hauling hot water up a ladder to the second floor?

      Throughout the movie, the characters are told it will take “two weeks” for the job to be complete.  Currently, we are being told work could be completed by Christmas.  Based on my extensive knowledge of home renovations (I have none) and what the movie has taught me (because movies are truth), I’m guessing work will be complete by Easter.  This isn’t to discount the work of the contractor, this is because the house is big and who knows what might happen as work gets underway.  Speaking of the contractor, Rappahannock Restorations will be the primary contractor for the main house.  If you have a chance, click on their name to be routed to their website where you can see pictures of some of their previous work.  Marcus was particularly excited to discover they had worked on the Pump House in Fredericksburg.

      For the cottage and barn, Elemental Energy Solutions (EES) will be performing the work and have already begun on the cottage.  After a harrowing encounter with a groundhog (or shall we call them “attic-hogs” in this case) the team has torn down the back-side of the cottage, which was completely damaged by the hole in the roof, and started to rough out the new wall and that portion of the roof.

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      Photo credit, Adam Greico of EES.

      So far, with the exception of that aforementioned attic-hog incident (a groundhog, startled that humans were actually in his space, ran up the arm of an unsuspecting EES employee) , work has started and is progressing without a hitch.  If we’re lucky, truth will not be stranger than fiction and all will continue to proceed smoothly.

       

      Posted in Barn, Contractors, Cottage, Main House | 2 Comments
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